genderpunks:

asexuality is not an inconvenience. it isn’t a burden to change your conversation topics to avoid making a sex repulsed asexual feel uncomfortable or unsafe. it isn’t about you if an asexual romantic or life partner does not want to have sex. it’s none of your business if an asexual person has frequent sex, or makes money off of their body or sexuality. it’s not an attempt to manipulate you when an asexual/aceflux person has fluctuating levels of sex favorability, neutrality and/or repulsion.

someone else’s asexuality isn’t about you, it is not inherently overstepping your boundaries. forcing the asexual person to cope or deal with things that make them uncomfortable or go against the way they want to live their lives is overstepping their boundaries, and people need to accept this.

(via fuckyeahasexual)


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